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February 6, 2010

urbandictionary: sean

Filed under: Personal

1. sean

used to define huge sarcastic assholes, that end up becoming amazingly sweet. Seans know exactly how to piss you off and then five seconds later have you cracking up. Huge jerks, but gotta love ‘em.

Dude, that kid is such a freaking sean.
Don’t pull a sean, just be nice.
 
5. sean
 
A personal shrink, someone who gives you constant advice and good advice whenever you need it. IE: Sean is the peoples Dr.Phil.
 
1: "Wow I have alot going on right now"
2: "You should go talk to a Sean"
1: "Dude, I totally should!"
 
 
 
so apparently, you can tell a lot abt a person by their name! (;
 
 

February 5, 2010

a little realisation

Filed under: Personal

because sean realised he’s not so much into a certain someone in particular, but rather a construct of his ideal mate.

she just happens to the best fit so far.

February 3, 2010

because every cloud should have a silver lining

Filed under: Personal

so january was a bad month for arsenal, and we’re really playing catchup in the title race now. nevertheless, the goals are still good fun to watch! enjoy.

February 1, 2010

男人和女人应该偷偷知道的十件事

Filed under: Personal

男人应该偷偷知道的十件事-

1.一个真正爱你的女人,需要的不是锦衣华服,海誓山盟,而是安全感。一个她可以在任何时候都靠得住的肩膀,当她受了委屈伏在你肩头哭泣的时候,不要躲开。

2.在她一人独处的夜晚,不要忘了打电话给她,哪怕只说一句:没什么,只是想你了。

3.不要吝惜说我爱你,这是取悦女人耳朵的最美妙的音乐。这是要真诚的望着她的眼睛,因为这时她也在阅读着你的心灵。

4.激情过后,不要忘了给她的爱抚和绵绵的情话。让她知道你是真正的爱她而非因性而爱。

5.当女人问"记得今天是什么日子吗?"要毫不犹豫地答出,要牢记她的生日,她的星座,她的血型,记得你们第一次见面的情景,记得你们最动容时的情话,记得她最喜欢的牌子,甚至她的经期,这会向她表明你很在乎她。

6.记得每天给她微笑。男人要面对是世界。而你就是她的世界。你的微笑就是她幸福的世界。

7.不要高估了女人的度量。当她要你讲你从前的她的时候一定要警惕,有可能就会成为将来她捕风捉影的理论依据。

8.再忙得时候也要抽出时间来陪陪她。哪怕只是在家听听她的唠叨。其实女人也是控制欲非常强的,甚至希望你像宠物一样围在她身边转。

9.在你们争吵后她转身跑开时,你唯一要做的也是她最希望的就是追上去把她紧紧抱在怀里。

10.爱她,不要伤害她。她承载着你一生辛勤的汗水,细心呵护,保护投资.

女人应该偷偷知道的十件事

一:爱人就是爱人,只要去爱,不要拿来比较,不要老说别人的老公如何如何好,别数落他没出息,你是他最亲密的人,你还这么说他,好象不太应该,对大多数男人来说,赞赏和鼓励比辱骂更能让他有奋斗的力量。何况,爱他还忍心伤害他吗?爱他一定要尊重他,再生气也不可以出口伤人,言语的伤口有时一生都在流血的。身体的伤害很容易治愈,精神的伤害后果是可怕的。

二:不可以整天追问对方爱不爱你。他若真爱你,你不必问;他若不爱你,他已做了你的丈夫,难道他会对自己的妻子明确地承认吗?除非他不想要这段婚姻了。他对你的爱,用心去体会就品味出来了。爱是做出来的,不是说出来的。老挂在口头上不落到实际的爱太苍白无力,婚姻是现实的,生活是现实的,风花雪月的恋爱,不是真实的生活。婚姻是从柴米油盐中感受爱的。

三:不要摆脸色给对方看,一个生气的女人是很丑陋的。他工作已有许多压力,没有义务回家还要看你的脸色哄你开心。对方性格上会有缺点,生活细节会与你不同,令你不满意,但他怎么可能是完美的,在你面前,他要放下面具,做回自己,做个普通人。宽容是做人和对待婚姻应有的态度。

四:男人对自己的尊严看得比什么都重要,不管在私下他有多么宠爱你,多么怕你。在人前一定要给足对方面子,让他做天不怕地不怕老婆更不怕的他口中的顶天立地的男子汉,他应该不大会喜欢朋友们开玩笑取笑他怕老婆。除非他有足够的强大后盾和高高在上的身份,可是,我们大多是普通人呀。

五:男人大多喜欢吹牛,你别戳破他的这个小把戏,他们这么样可以让自己得到一点力量,找到一点自信,好继续人生征程下面的拼搏。虚拟的成就感能让他心情明朗起来不好吗?没人喜欢自己一无所是。和妻子在一起,***是身体的放纵,谈话是心灵的放纵,只要爱人得到快乐,轻松一点装傻附合他一下不是很好吗?

六:男人骨子里全都喜欢美女,看到美女会目不转睛或回头行注目礼,你别认为他不爱你,也别认为他好色,爱看美女是男人的本能,与品格无关。何况,爱美知心人皆有之。你难道没偷看过帅哥吗?
七:不要太虚荣,不要太功利,物质的追求是无止境的,你是活自己,不是活给别人看的,鞋子合不合脚只有自个知道,舒服最重要,其它的都装饰,是虚设。何况俗话说:千金易得,有情郎难寻。真爱无价,情义无价。

八:男人为何喜欢温柔的女人,因为他们内心很脆弱,不象外表般坚强,他们需要妻子柔情似水,柔声细语,轻怜蜜爱。知要你有温雅如兰的外表和气质,有吐气如兰的声音,有含情脉脉的眼波,他们很容易化百炼钢为绕指柔的,温瑞安有本书叫《温柔一刀》,温柔,可以杀死一个男人的,对于男人,那是致命的诱惑。

九:家庭永远是第一,我们固然要对工作负责,要有职业道德,要从工作中得到乐趣,但不要做工作的奴隶,我们工作是为了更快乐地和家人在一起,享受生活,享受生命很重要。

十:爱人的父母就是自己的父母,将心比心,爱屋及屋,老吾老以及人之老,只要内心深处真正感到这就是我自己的父母,心理上对老人依恋亲密,老人回感受到这份真心的。何况,人老了很象孩子,只要象哄孩子般哄老人开心就好了。我们自己也有老的一天。

 
 
虽然这不是我自己的作品,但我认为大部分来说,这还是蛮准确的哦!

January 31, 2010

feeling the wind in my hair again

Filed under: Personal

so i finally cut my hair to uber short length again today, the MPs really have nothing on me now heh. it’s been a long weekend, this has. but let’s just go through the highlights eh?

1 year anniversary lunch with bmt friends

after nearly 10 mths since the last meeting, the bunch from platoon 1 section 1 finally caught up again on saturday at nydc, wheelock place. even though not everyone managed to turn up, it was still quite a decent showing of 7. everyone looks a little different from what we last rmbred of each other, but some other things just never change. looking back, i’m quite blessed to have had such a cool and funny bunch of ppl for my bmt section mates, sth that affected my bmt experience for the better.

absurd person singular

it was the first meeting with the gang again since debbie’s gig at dempsey130, and boy was it good to see everyone’s faces again. the number of acsi ppl present was staggering though. it was as if a mini ac class of ‘08 reunion was being held at nusucc, the number of supporters were crazy. personally, i found the play largely enjoyable and humourous. i was particularly impressed with deb khoo, her ability to pull off her lines with that thick accent without faltering, and her acting skeelz as a raving alcoholic. asher, as usual, gave a solid performance! it was a pity we didnt see more of him though, but cheuk ho was probably more preoccupied with asher’s on-screen missus to notice (hehe). the chance to catch up with the rest of the ac folks after the play was really great, and it kinda reminded me of why i missed school so much: friends. twas a great night out.

soccer

the game today was really intense, probably due to jeremy’s absence and subsequent lack of on-pitch drama. everyone played very seriously, which added a little more oomph to the game. it was great for pastor to be able to join us in our game today. whatever keeps him going these days, i really gotta get me one of those myself. the onli blemish on the perfect sunday soccer experience was probably the injuries to both ian and marcus. hopefully it’s nth serious, and some speedy recovery is on the way hoho.

strangely enough, today reminded me of how much more comfortable i feel around the older youth, instead of my peers or juniors in church. still havent figured out why yet, but -shrug-. perhaps i will someday.

January 28, 2010

1 year soldier

Filed under: Personal

somehow, something still feels like it’s missing.

why do you keep seeking, as though I am not enough?

contentment sean, why cant you just learn.

happy anniversary pes c dudes. we’re halfway there.

January 27, 2010

because some of the best things in life come in tiny little packages of absurdity.

Filed under: Personal

bus 196, bus stop outside acsi.

sean gets into the bus.
proceeds to walk towards the rear to find a seat.
sean brushes stranger’s foot while walking past him, because it was sticking out and sean onli had a narrow path to make use of.
sean apologises to stranger, making eye contact with him in the process to express sincerity.
sean proceeds to take a seat opposite the girl sitting beside stranger, ie. diagonally opposite him.
he then starts talking to the girl abt how he’s really exhausted from frisbee.
girl responds cheerfully
friendly conversation ensues
stranger keeps shooting sean and girl weird looks during the entire duration. with a "WTF" look on his face, if you will.
stranger gets to his stop, continues looking back at sean and girl, with the same perplexed look plastered all over his face.
sean and girl laugh hysterically at stranger, get off at next stop, goes to sean’s house.

girl: thanh.
coming to sean’s house to give sheryl tuition.

sean.
heading home after frisbee at school.

relationship: ex-classmates
random fun fact: both of them bumped into each other on 196 for the 2nd week in a row, very very coincidentally.

stranger: indian male, possibly in his 20s.
look on stranger’s face = PRICELESS.

i wonder what was going through his mind the whole time. sth to the extent of "wait, picking girls up on public transportation’s THAT simple?!" i suppose? (; offer me some alternatives, this should be fun!

January 22, 2010

things to like

Filed under: Personal

January 21, 2010

don’t bite and hate

Filed under: Personal

i’ve been so caught up with things lately i havent had much time to revisit this space, so much so that i actually feel slightly guilty for neglecting my blog for such an extended period of time. the last two posts werent even really updates abt my life and its happenings, so i suppose this one will have to be the atonement for my sins. somehow.

the past few weeks have been fairly eventful i’d say, especially with regards to church and army. the youth induction for 2010 was held last sunday, and even though it wasnt half as exciting as last year’s, it was still an encouragement to the current youth leaders, with the younger ones stepping up to the responsibility of organizing and carrying out the event giving us an indication of their continual growth and maturity. my cell of smallboyboys were pretty welcoming to the new additions, while their increasing familiarity with one another just resulting in the cell getting a lot livelier (and louder), which may or may not be a good thing, i cant say for sure yet.

jasper and chris ROD-ed last week, while zhaohan and kuan hui are ORD-ing tmr. this effectively means that half of the nsf group that usually hangs out together during lunch and whatnot has left, without anyone new coming in to replace them. it’s gonna be very strange without all of them ard, without each of their quirks and idiosyncrasies, without anyone to expect at the lunch table during lunch anymore, or the random emails and conversations that fly ard in the OA. i think zhaohan’s departure is probably gonna affect us (or maybe it’s just me) the most. no more random outbursts of insanity coupled with extreme moodswings, or intense competition over the silliest and most insignificance of things, or rating random beings that we can get visuals of.

alas, change is the only constant in life. 1 year later, and it’ll be our turn. so much of 2010 is left, so much more can happen from now until then. nevertheless, i sincerely hope that i do not lose anymore friends than i already have, either to circumstances beyond my control or to sheer unwillingness to make a conscious effort to keep in touch.

it was good to meet up with the ol’ ncc gang again today, even if i was just being ‘made use of’. i particularly appreciate hariz’s efforts to ankat my bolah, i havent been held in such high esteem for a while.

 

January 15, 2010

friends

Filed under: Personal

friends are people that touch your heart. you could spend hours with them doing nothing at all and it can be the best time of your life, just because it was with them. they’re the people you can share your secrets with, cry with, laugh with, and just have fun with. they dun judge you or make you change. they accept you exactly as you are. you all share something in common and are tied together by memories, tears, laughs and smiles. friendship is one of the strangest but greatest things in the world. the time i spend with my friends are some of the best times of my life.






















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